Talking with yourself is the best conversation you can have with yourself, especially when you push your spirits up instead of down. When I think of reality, it comes down to how we approach it, and it starts there with talking to yourself and day dreaming. Thinking deeply about spirituality, self-hypnosis and the like, it all starts there with how we talk to ourselves and visualize our goals genuinely. The more compelling and “violently” powerful the visions and conversations with ourselves, the more effective in creating a reality it is.
With that said: The better the reality, the better the beliefs in ourselves. Indeed, negative beliefs lead to a negative or destructive reality.
I felt negative feelings this morning, and to get over them, I talked to myself in a positive way and took immediate positive action even “if I did not feel like it”. I feel great now, but we all have to work at it, even the best of us in the best of circumstances at times. That is the whole point of this paragraph, because there is always someone with “better circumstances than we have” or “someone with worse circumstances than we have”. So, I can only say and realistically communicate this reality: Do the best with what you have got.
As in the game of poker, as in the game of life, everyone gets a hand, and we have to play what we have got to the best of our ability or genuinely lose deeply in our minds from the beginning of play. Communicating with ourselves is the most powerful thing we can do because reality is an experience in communication really and nothing else. Communication with ourselves, communication with our environment, communication with others, communication with everything really. Indeed, it comes down to this: Right communication comes down to right results. Wrong communication comes down to wrong results. So, in reality, we could say “cause and effect”, yes, sure, but what is really meant is “cause and results”, not so much “effect” as a semantic meaning. Effect is too permanent a word to describe multiple tries at success and ultimately succeeding anyway. Results is a preferred term for me, especially to describe repeated successes. After all, in the games of life and poker, it is results we get from playing each hand in succession, not permanent effects that matter from the past. Now, the present, is cold hard cash, the past is spent and the future is to be determined, a promissory note, so to say.
We must communicate to ourselves in the best possible ways always to get the best results in present reality.
